| No. |
Healthy Anger |
Rage |
| 1 |
A primary emotion |
A reaction |
| 2 |
Neutral |
Negative and inappropriate |
| 3 |
Generates action |
Draining |
| 4 |
Doesn't seek to hurt |
Looking to cause harm |
| 5 |
Increases communication and connection |
Clouds communication and increases conflict and disconnection |
| 6 |
Maintains boundaries and rights injustices |
An injustice and creates injustice |
| 7 |
Heals |
Wounds |
| 8 |
Contained until proper time, place and person |
Out of control, misdirected and disregards time, place and person |
| 9 |
Present-time oriented |
Rooted in the past |
| 10 |
About me |
About you |