| No. |
Healthy Relationships |
Unhealthy Relationships |
1 |
Honor each other's differences |
Try to force them to change |
| 2 |
Proud of other's success |
Threatened by other's success |
| 3 |
Decisions are made together |
Dominant partner only decides |
| 4 |
Never threaten violence |
Uses violence to control |
| 5 |
Mutual trust in each other |
Always jealous or doubtful |
| 6 |
Accepts who they are now |
Uses the past against them |
| 7 |
Excited from texts and calls |
Anxious from texts and calls |
| 8 |
Non-judgemental |
Very judgemental |
| 9 |
Questions compassionately |
Always accusing, not asking |