Analogies

ANALOGIES

253. Responding And Reacting

252. The Church is not And The Church is

251. Manhood: Without Godly Wisdom And With Godly Wisdom

250. Kind Leaders And Nice Leaders

249. A Believer And A Christian

248. Education: Idealism And Realism

247. Co-dependant Thinking And Boundary-led Thinking

246. Relationship Honoring And Relationship Betrayals

245. Things you can control And Things you can't control

244. Career And Calling

243. Passover And Jesus, Lamb of God

242. What a boss says And What a leader says

241. Entitlement And Gratitude

240. Christian Growth: The Myth And The Truth

239. Being Nice And Being Kind

238. Boundaries And Walls

237. Conflict And Bullying

236. When you read the Bible And When you don't read the Bible

235. Justification And Sanctification

234. Using Discernment And Being Judgemental

233. Confidence And Over-Confidence

232. Baby Christian And Seasoned Christian

231. Trust And Confidence

230. Emotional Bypassing And Emotional Processing

229. Worldly Mindset And Christian Mindset

228. Faith And Fear

227. Enmeshed Relationships And Boundaried Relationships

226. Psychological Safety And Not Psychological Safety

225. Self-Compassion And Self-Pity

224. Culture And Religion

223. Attitude And Behavior

222. Goal And Objective

221. Toxic Leaders Say And Kind Leaders Say

220. Emotional Health And Mental Health

219. Knowledge And Wisdom

218. Needs And Wants

217. Persuasion And Manipulation

216. Fact And Opinion

215. Low Self-esteem and Insecurities

214. Raised in Love And Raised in Survival

213. "Relationships are work" means This And Not This

212. Feedback And Criticism

211. Trials And Temptations

210. Close-Minded And Open-Minded People

209. Clergy-Focused And Mission-Focused Congregations

208. Conflict And Violence

207. Earthly Ministry And Heavenly Ministry

206. Controlling And Caring

205. Healthy Parents And Not So Healthy Parents

204. Early Believers And Christianity

203. Emotional Immaturity And Emotional Responsibility

202. The Jezebel Spirit And The Ruth Spirit

201. Criticism: Constructive And Destructive

200. Vices And Virtues

199. Power And Authority

198. Marriage: World Says And Bible Says

197. Appropriate Guilt And Shame

196. Growth Mindset And Stuck Mindset

195. Churchianity And Christianity

194. Names of Satan And Names of Christ

193. The Apostolic And The Apostate Christian

192. JESUS And JE$U$

191. God's Voice And Enemy's Voice

190. Disciplines Of Diminishers And Multipliers

189. Impulsive And Compulsive

188. Equity And Equality

187. Traditional Leaders And Servant Leaders

186. Biblical Jesus And Modern Jesus

185. Blind Faith And Biblical Faith

184. Emotional Intelligence : Low and High

183. Religion And Relationship

182. Toxic Positivity And Genuine Optimism

181. Anger And Aggression

180. The Beauty of Worldliness And Holiness

179. Unsaved And Saved

178. First And Second Coming of Christ

177. The Godly And The Ungodly

176. Biblical Teaching And New Age Teaching

175. Old Way of Law And New Way of Spirit

174. Effectiveness And efficiency

173. Traditional Leadership And Creative Leadership

172. Human Brain And Artificial Intelligence

171. Peacemaker And Troublemaker

170. Over-bounded And Under-bounded Systems

169. Mission And Vision

168. Society And Community

167. Introversion And Extraversion

166. Biblical self-care And Worldly self-care

165. Normal Anxiety And Problematic Anxiety

164. What we can control And What we cannot control

163. Smpathy, Empathy And Compassion

162. Duty And Responsibility

161. People Pleasing And Authentic Connection

160. Reactive Life And Conscious Life

159. Young And Old

158. Anxiety: What others see and What I feel inside

157. Science Then And Science Now

156. Healthy Venting And Emotional Dumping

155. Traditional Leaders And Collaborative Leaders

154. Leaders who deliver and Leaders who destroy

153. Competition And Conflict

152. Unhealthy And Healthy Conflict

151. Your behaviour And Trauma-informed view

150. Peer Conflict And Bullying Conflict

149. Debate And Dialogue

148. Argument And Discussion

147. Younger And Older Leadership

146. Law Says... And Faith Says�

145. Healthy And Impaired Self Esteem

144. Old School And New School

143. Healthy And Unhealthy Relationships

142. Ethics: Good And Bad

141. Negotiation Strategies: Win-Win And Win-Lose

140. Personal And Professional Ethics

139. Stress And Burnout

138. Transactional And Transformational Leadership

137. Sadness And Depression

136. Love And Dependency

135. Happiness And Joy

134. Relationships: Healthy, Unhealthy and Abusive

133. Knowledge And Questions

132. Grace without Truth And Truth without Grace

131. Grief And Trauma

130. Toxic Positivity And Positivity

129. The Realm of Doing And The Realm of Being

128. Friendship And Love

127. Ego And Self-Esteem

126. Good Friends And Bad Friends

125. Authority And Responsibility

124. Healthy Anger And Rage

123. Omnivert And Ambivert

122. Introverts And Extroverts

121. Easy And Difficult

120. Salvation And Discipleship

119. Culture of Violence and Culture of Peace

118. Healthy And Unhealthy Church

117. Consequences And Punishment

116. Genuine People And Fake People

115. Kind People And Nice People

114. Self-will And Gods Will

113. The World And Christians

112. False Humility And True Humility

111. Leadership And Management

110. Leadership Styles: Autocratic, Democratic And Laissez-faire

109. Before Jesus And After Jesus

108. Authentic Kindness And People Pleasing

107. Reasonable Mind, Wise Mind And Emotional Mind

106. Evolutionist / Secular Humanist View And Christian View

105. Ego And True Self

104. Victim Mindset And Healing Mindset

103. Awakened Man And Awakened Woman

102. Re-parenting Self And Re-traumatizing Self

101. Worldy Dads And Godly Dads

100. Christian View And Secular View

99. Confident Entrepreneur And Arrogant Entrepreneur

98. Hard work And Smart work

97. Song Leader And Worship Leader

96. Healing Mindset And Fixed Mindset

95. Inner Wisdom And Ego

94. Aggressive And Assertive

93. Vulnerability And Fauxnerability

92. Emotionally Stunted And Emotionally Mature

91. Healthy Relationships And Trauma Relationships

90. Reaction And Response

89. Lack Mindset And Abundance Mindset

88. Ego And Confidence

87. Self Accountability And Self Betrayal

86. Inner Critic And Inner Coach

85. Successful People And Unsuccessful People

84. Voice of Fear And Voice of Love

83. Intuition And Fear

82. Wisdom of Satan And Wisdom of God

81. Confidence And Arrogance

80. Goals And Dreams

79. Arrogance And Humility

78. Successful Leaders And Effective Leaders

77. Proud People And Humble People

76. Godly Repentance And Worldly Repentance

75. Godly Love And Worldly Love

74. False Wisdom And True Wisdom

73. Positional Power And Personal Power

72. Self-centered Religiosity And God-centered Humility

71. Contract And Covenant

70. Power And Influence

69. High Self-esteem And Low Self-esteem

68. Voice Of God And Voice Of Satan

67. Peace Of The World And Peace Of God

66. Godly Sorrow And Worldly Sorrow

65. What Fear Does And What Love Does

64. Positive Thinking And Negative Thinking

63. Stress And Anxiety

62. Motive And Intention

61. Grief And Depression

60. Shame And Guilt

59. Seek And Dont Seek

58. Woundmate And Heartmate

57. Attitude And Ego

56. Dictatorship And Democracy

55. God's Economy And Man's Economy

54. Honesty And Integrity

53. Driven-Doing Mode And Being Mode

52. Smart And Wise

51. Faithful And Loyal

50. Governance And Leadership Response

49. Law And Ethics

48. The You And The Ego

47. Pleasure And Happiness

46. Ownership And Stewardship

45. Discipline And Punishment

44. Law of Sin & Death And Law of the Spirit

43. Responsibility And Accountability

42. Ego And Soul

41. Subconscious Mind And Physical Mind

40. Intuition And Ego

39. Religion And Spirituality

38. Fixed Mindset And Growth Mindset

37. Accountable Teammates And Unaccountable Teammates

36. Culture of Blame And Culture of Accountability

35. True Love And Fake Love

34. Unhealthy Love And Healthy Love

33. Feelings And Emotions

32. Anxiety And Depression

31. A Boss And A Leader

30. Trauma Bonding And Authentic Bonding

29. Ego Love And Authentic Love

28. Narcissism And Self-Love

27. Things That Drain Your Energy And Raise Your Energy

26. Confident And Arrogant

25. Mother And Father

24. Busy Leaders And Productive Leaders

23. Busy People And Productive People

22. Critical Thinking And Creative Thinking

21. The Old Covenant And The New Covenant

20. Meddling And Helping

19. Pride And Humility

18. Critical Spirit And Caring Spirit

17. Emotional Immaturity And Emotional Maturity

16. Religion And Gospel

15. Intelligence And Wisdom

14. Teacher And Guru

13. Spiritual Gifts And Talents

12. Spiritual Gifts And Fruit Of The Spirit

11. Love And Lust

10. Live Churches And Dead Churches

9. Unbroken And Broken People

8. Children Learn What They Live

7. Man And God

6. Self-Centered Life And Self-Centered Deeds

5. Man's Way And God's Way

4. Men And Women

3. Winner And Loser

2. Competitors And Innovators

1. Manager And Leader

Responding And Reacting

No. Responding Reacting

1 Intentional Impulsive

2 Delayed response Immediate response

3 Based on logic and emotion Fueled only by emotion

4 Diffuses the situation Fuels conflict and escalates the situation

5 Considers long term effects Focused on the short term