| No. |
Entitlement |
Gratitude |
1 |
Making demands on time or emotional energy |
Coming to an arrangement that feels good for everyone |
| 2 |
Giving with an expectation that you'll get something |
Giving with an expectation that you'll impact someone |
| 3 |
Expecting to get something that hasn't been offered to anyone else |
Choosing to make the most out of what is given |
| 4 |
Lack of boundaries / feels like pressure / does not reciprocate |
clear boundaries / feels like mutual giving and receiving without keeping score |
| 5 |
Plays "too cool" to acknowledge anyone outside of self |
Consistently shows appreciation and helps others, anytime that's an option |
