| No. |
Trauma Bonding |
Authentic Bonding |
| 1 |
Fix me, save me, validate my existence |
Learn me, see me, hold space for all of me |
| 2 |
Chaotic, unpredictable, a roaler coaster of emotions |
Steady, safe, consistently showing up for each other without question |
| 3 |
You complete me |
You enhance who I already am |
| 4 |
I betray myself + all of my needs to receive love |
I do the work to meet my own needs first |
| 5 |
My relationships mirror the patterning of my childhood experience |
My relationships are based in freedom, accountability, + peace |
