No. |
World Says |
Bible Says |
1 |
Solves our problems |
Reveals our problems |
2 |
Brings happiness |
Leads to holiness |
3 |
Is good if you don't argue |
Maturity through arguments |
4 |
Shouldn't be working |
Will be difficult |
5 |
Is about a feeling |
Commitment over feelings |
6 |
Is about getting |
Is about giving |
7 |
Should be 50/50 |
Is about giving 100% |
8 |
Accept based on behavior |
Loving in spite of behavior |
9 |
It's about equal rights |
Surrendering rights to God |
10 |
Motivated by spouse's love |
Motivated by Christ's love |
11 |
Is a contract |
Is a covenant |
12 |
Is about behavior |
Is about motives of the heart |
13 |
Trust spouse's goodness |
Trust God's goodness |
14 |
Should run from suffering |
Should embrace suffering |
15 |
Should be source of joy |
God is the source of joy |
16 |
Love until it hurts |
Love until you die |
17 |
Satisfaction found in the other |
Satisfaction found in Christ |
18 |
About assigning blame |
About accepting responsibility |
19 |
Is about the couple |
Is about glorifying God |