No. |
Raised in Love |
Raised in Survival |
1 |
Validated feelings |
Dismissive of feelings and opinions |
2 |
Praised for success as well as the effort |
Harsh criticism |
3 |
Warm physical touch |
Feeling unsafe in own home |
4 |
Structure and appropriate consequences |
Unpredictable or unstable caregivers |
5 |
Unconditional positive regard |
Physical, emotional or sexual abuse |
6 |
Patience and understanding |
Neglected of basic needs |