| No. |
Conflict |
Bullying |
1 |
Happens in front of you and/or others |
Often happens in secrecy |
| 2 |
Is mostly mild in nature |
Not usually mild in nature, any form of bullying has a harsh effect on the victim |
| 3 |
It is mostly spontaneous |
It can be planned |
| 4 |
The agenda is to solve an issue which may or may not be personal |
The agenda is only to harass and humiliate |
| 5 |
If physical altercation happens, both parties are invovled |
The bully is interested in a physical fight, the victim is not |
| 6 |
Is generally once off, and does not happen repeatedly |
Happens repeatedly and with malicious intent |
| 7 |
No one feels danger for physical or mental safety |
Physical and mental harm is experienced and feared |
| 8 |
General remorse |
No remorse, as a bully blames the victim |
