| No. |
Area |
Emotional Immaturity |
Emotional Maturity |
| 1 |
Love |
Love is need. Demands affection and love but avoids any sign of weakness. Has difficulty showing and accepting love.
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Love is sharing. Fosters a sense of security which allows vulnerability and strength. Can express love and accept expressions of love.
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| 2 |
Emotions |
Cannot handle frustration or criticism; jealous, unwilling to forgive, fluctuating moods. Temper tantrums. Fears change.
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Uses emotions as energy sources. When frustrated, sets goals and seeks solutions.
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| 3 |
Reality |
Avoids and denies money and relationship problems which demand integrity. Seeks people to blame.
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Confronts and analyzes problems properly. Seeks many solutions and chooses the best. Accepts responsibility.
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| 4 |
Give & Take |
May be willing to give but not take or willing to take but not give.
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Helps enhance the quality of life of beloved people. Accepts help from others.
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| 5 |
Feedback |
Does not learn from experience. Good or bad experiences are caused by luck or fate. Little personal responsibility.
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Life is a learning experience. Accepts responsibility and learns from feedback. Looks for opportunities. Moves on.
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| 6 |
Stress |
Avoids reality, pessimistic, angry, attacks people when frustrated. Often anxious.
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Relaxed and confident in their ability to plan and achieve what they want.
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| 7 |
Relating |
Dependent, easily influenced, indecisive or impulsive. Avoids responsibility for own actions or deficiencies. Sensitive to criticism but insensitive to others' feelings.
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Independent, team-worker or manager as required. Cooperative. Experiences empathy and compassion. A good friend, partner, parent and teamworker.
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