| No. |
Green Flags |
Red Flags |
1 |
They respect your boundaries |
They want you to spend all of your time with them |
| 2 |
Open, honest and clear communication |
They are overly controlling and lack trust |
| 3 |
They make an effort |
Inconsistent effort or noncommittal attitude |
| 4 |
They listen without judgement and make you feel seen and heard |
You are afraid of their reactions and you hide things from them |
| 5 |
They are supportive and show appreciation |
They don't show support for you or the relationship |
| 6 |
You feel safe in their presence and you trust them |
They are belittling, criticizing or making fun of you often |
| 7 |
They take accountability and apologize when needed |
They always make you feel like you are in the wrong |
